People are getting on my damn nerves!

I love when people give you unsolicited and just as unwanted advice. Or worse yet.. Their opinions! Shut the hell up! Yes.. This blog is going to be a ranty angry rambling blog, bear with me if you will.. When did it become acceptable for people to share every single opinion they have on topics they know NOTHING ABOUT? Fox news is notorious for this but the trickle down effect has permeated society. Random people are always handing out their opinions like Halloween candy. Look.. I do NOT CARE what you think. If I DID I would have ASKED “Hey.. What do you think”. Since I KNOW I did not.. Don’t tell me! Sheesh. I just want to sew people's lips shut. However, I choose the less invasive alternative and walk away.

This all has to do with why people make me feel like I have to JUSTIFY my divorce. Don’t judge me as if I am a quitter or I didn’t try hard enough or I should give him more chances to grow up. Look.. You didn’t walk in my painful shoes. Shoes that pinched my toes, caused calluses, and rubbed my heels raw. You don’t know what goes on behind closed doors! People can be ever so charming to people they don’t live with. It is easy to keep up the fa├žade outside the home. Even Ted Bundy was a charming handsome devil, however examine his track record. Exactly. So don’t give me that pitying look and tell me I should seek counseling. Uh.. I am a psychologist and in my estimation I sorta know when it is time to throw in the towel! People do NOT change! Do not fall for this fairytale. People DO NOT CHANGE! They just don’t. They may modify their behavior for a little while and when it is safe they revert back to the asshole they always were.

I am absolutely sick of people telling me about MY LIFE. I am tired of chalking up the Reader’s Digest version of G’s sins and watching awe dawn over their faces as their opinion of the situation changes. Why do I need to JUSTIFY how I live my life? Why is it SELFISH of me to want to be happy alone? I am not a swan. I don’t need a life partner to survive. I need a man like a fish needs a motorcycle. So people.. Stop telling me what a great guy he is, or what a catch he is or how you are shocked it didn’t work out. Keep your Fkin opinions to yourself and I will stop appalling you with the reasons why I am happily divorced and why G is such an incredible selfish asshole. Stress HAPPILY as I was MISERABLY married. Rant Over.

Comments (9)

On October 24, 2009 at 9:58 AM , Betsy Eves @JavaCupcake said...

Sometimes... the blog is the best place to VENT!!!! YOU GO GIRL!!! Get all your frustrations out there!!! And f**k anyone who has a problem with it!!!

On October 27, 2009 at 6:25 PM , Admin said...

Yeah, anonymous is funny! On my blog, anonymous wrote "you ain't no mothafuckin bad-ass. Ahm the bad-ass up in this bitch, bitch."

Hmm, didn't anonymous write to YOU that if you are bad-ass, you don't need to proclaim it to the world? Hahaha!

Wow! If we are such losers, girl, how come they are stalking our blog and reading us? hehehe

On October 28, 2009 at 7:38 AM , Admin said...

I've decided that when people give me unsolicited comments on such aspects of my life, I am going to tell them something crazy to embarrass them. Have you ever read my post about all my office workers always telling me about having a kid? Well, just recently I finally said, "I didn't want to have to tell you this, but I am infertile". Lie. But you should have seen the person's face; it was fabulous. I've decided that I am going to keep doing this kind of thing with certain people.

On October 28, 2009 at 8:53 PM , Anonymous said...

Seems like someone is trying to make up for his small penis by being a big bad dickhead all over your blog..

Listen up small dick.. you are a small petty little man.. you have been weighed, measured and found to be a smalldicked dumbass.. Goodbye!

Cupcake keep going girll <3 ya

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